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Confession Friday - Things I struggle with.

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Thanks to Amy I'd thought I'd write on 3 things I struggle with and perhaps you do too! Here they are in no particular order. I. Pride. Sometimes I think myself better than others. Sometimes I can be really a jerk and not communicate, nor be the best husband, father, minister, teacher, preacher, sometimes I forget it isn't all about me - It is about God. None of this can be done on my own. I've been reading a lot of leadership books; but the interesting thing is a lot of these books seem to be saying that they are depending on themselves more than they are depending on God. Do this formula, or follow this pattern and presto chango and you have Instant Mega-Church. My pride tends to get the best of me. II. Gluttony. Now I am trying to get in shape (Round is a shape, right??) but my struggle isn't just food. It would be simple if that was it; but it isn't. My struggle isn't really a food but a drink. It is an addiction. I admit it. And admitting is half the b

Top Ten Things to do for those Job Searching!

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Chances are you know someone who has been seeking a job. Currently seeking a job, or will be seeking a job. So what is the Church's role and how can we as fellow Christians help one another? Galatians 6:10 says "So then, as we have opportunity, let us work that which is good toward all men,and especially toward them that are of the household of the faith." So here are some helpful suggestions to those job seeking. I. Pray for them. Pray that they get the job - that God would have them in. That they would be able to honor God and glorify Him in. II. Help them with their Resume. Ask to see it. Give some critique to help them in revising their resume. Give them some Tips Do a great cover letter. Some good insight Remember your resume is getting your foot into the door ... don't just generalize it. III. Help them identify their marketable and transferable skills. If they have leadership qualities, teaching abilities, management background - make sure that it is known. I

Powerful Words

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“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him” Colossians 3:17 (NIV). Words are powerful. I'm learning that more and more. A few years ago as I was with a few of my fellow youth workers, we went indoor rock climbing. It came to me. I get paid to do this. I mean the indoor rock climbing was Free, the company wanted us to try it out so that we might bring our groups there. They claim to be the “Biggest Indoor Rock Climbing Facility on the East Coast.” I don't know how true that is; but it is quite a statement. So what does this have to do with words being powerful? Well, A lot actually. The claim that this company made was like ok is it for real? It got me thinking how real do we make God to ourselves, to others? I mean we go through the motions; say the words; or are we just playing a game of sorts. What we say makes an impact. And usually what we remember is the negative too. When so

What Would God say to Donald Trump?

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I've always wondered about Donald Trump and might have to do a sermon on What would God say to Donald Trump. I would love to have just 20 minutes with the Donald. Why? Not to discuss - money, power, and the such but about spirituality. Trump brings controversy. He is so much a icon and a part of culture. From Trump Versus Rosie Trump Versus Vince. to controversy in his pageants to his show: The Apprentice. I actually enjoyed the Show this season. One of the only shows I saw besides 24, and Heroes. And of course the Recent Controversy So what Tough Questions would you have for the Donald? What do you think God would say to him?

My Post-Youth Ministry Post

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Advice for those dealing w/ Teen Sexuality.

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Was given this situation earlier this week in an email. What to do if a student has been caught having sex? 1. Talk with the girl in question. Re-assure her. Encourage. Give examples of redemption. Things such as second virginity. 2. If the ex-boyfriend attends might discuss with him as well with male leader. 3. Cut out the gossip. Some how the gossip train needs to stop. 4. When talking with the girl - an either OR approach ... she talks with her parents or you; or both together. I think the best approach is to be there for her and include the parents in on what is going on. Think if this was your child; would you want to know? 5. Right now don't make a Special meeting on TEEN sexuality that seems to be out of the Norm ...this will only embarrass the student and might drive them further away ...discuss even about second virginity having one. That if you messed up ..there is redemption and forgiveness and grace extended. 6. Resources like Becoming a Young wo